Have you ever noticed (especially when you are single) everyone around you tends to have relationship advice? Everyone knows exactly what you need, and exactly what you are missing in your life. It's funny... everyone around you wants you to be happy. They want you to have that someone special in your life. Honestly...they mean well, they want to be sure you are getting everything you want out of life, and they simply want you to have the same happiness they do. These types of people are the ones you want in your life - they are the ones that love you and only want what's best for you!
Everyone says that the best relationships start with the best friendships first...while I am sure that is a true statement, there are also times in life where you have truly found your best friend... that's all. So, when you find that one person that you truly enjoy spending time with, that makes you smile, that loves your sarcastic tone and they not only tolerate but love your crazy kids. This person is the one who confronts you when you make bad decisions, and they are your biggest cheerleader and supporter. Why take the chance of messing it up with the "other" stuff? The "other" stuff is what adds the possibility of losing your best friend. Then...you also have the possibility that you really could be missing out on the relationship of a lifetime - the one you have always dreamed about.
I guess my point in all of this is... there are times in your life where you may make decisions that everyone does not agree with, they make think you have not thought the process through. Decisions may be made that even your are unsure of - all you can do is surround yourself with people you love, ask them to support your decision and pray that your are living out God's will.
Today...I know I am blessed by having the best friends and family around!
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